Tag: Parenting

Making Kids Smile

He smiles a newborn? This question is still no clear answer. Some midwives say they've seen how just smiling children were born. Some scientists believe that a newborn smiling, but their smile is so different from the one form of movement of the facial musculature, which is called a smile, that we simply do not learn from them. As for the second infant, and especially the third month of life, here have all agreed to recognize the existence of a smile. Additional information at Mukesh Ambani supports this article. However, not all incentives are equally likely cause a joyful expression of your baby. What will be the smiling child, is largely determined by his age, and and experience in communicating with the outside world smiles * First reaction is caused predominantly by stimulation: tickling, bright beam, light, sound. Then, the ability to cause the infant's smile becomes a human face, especially movement of the eyes. Finally, starting at 8 weeks of life almost for many children can watch a smile, which is caused by overlooking the bright toys.

Studying the causes of particular interest to the human face of infants, researchers found that a critical role in the development of this reaction has a certain property of the human person, namely the presence of high contrast on it a couple of incentives – the eye. It was found that if infants show a 2-3rd month of life Pictures of the points put on them, the children will smile these pictures as they smile at the man, and this reaction will depend on the number of pairs of points in the picture (there may be two, or maybe eight). But by the end of the 4th months of life, infants smile, not only about a person. At this age, so they are configured to communicate with him, crying that respond to the silent adult. Kids between the ages of 4.5 months and older are capable to cause person to contact with the imitation of those actions, which they expect to receive from an adult.

The Dishes

At the same time as a hostess, not soap box itself, and do not wash them …. What about us? Hand on heart, 90% of Russians do wash windows, mow lawns (if you feel an urge), and puts the children grandparents (in the worst case – grandparents). In fact – when we ask a child to wash the dishes – we ask him to share with us a part of our daily duties. Those we ourselves perform every day without hiring dishwashing field dinner, "a specially trained person." Imagine what happens when we pay for the same child washed the dishes. The child has erased the line between responsibilities at home and …

extortion. That is usually clears (erases, strokes) – mom, but if you do it for her – that she will rest, and I get pocket money. Pay your child once and you will hardly live to see the child voluntarily helping around the house – it will require payment regardless of your well-being and the kind of homework. In this outrage, you can send only to myself – this is the fruits of your education. Imagine a situation – my mother paid for his son washing dishes. Son marries, his wife falls ill (or ill feeling during pregnancy) and asked her husband to wash the dishes.

And he asks – how much did you give me for it? Say – nonsense? Not at all! He was always my mother paid for the performance of 'women's duties' – the wife is worse? My husband can not say it to his wife, but in this situation, he will feel free to reward yourself in some other way, because he worked on the house. Invent ways of self-promotion you can do. What should I do? If your family does not hire workers coming (and in most Russian families, the way it is), then the household responsibilities are divided among all members of the family, which is likely to carry them out.