Tag: home and family

First Dawns

To be mother is a cheap one, but also of the one work really what everybody says that ' ' later that you have a son, never more sossegada&#039 goes to sleep a sleep night; ' it is truth. Exactly that you sleep done rock, have a species of instinct that leaves a part of its on brain, and any ' ' uen' ' that its son of you wake up. with me is not different, as it was the case Therefore it is, Saturday dawn pra sunday, almost 4h of the morning, while I dreamed in my bed, to the side in the cradle my son I started if to espreguiar, when suddenly it untied that one pum that she seems an imprisoned adult has one week, there starts: ' ' Eh Eh Ehn Uennnn ' ' azoada I agreement. I bind to the light and it there you with that face that you not liking, and with all patience world I go to look it the reason: hunger is not, nor cold nor heat, nor pain Ah, embezzles it is it dirty! my son is abused, does not like to be dirty not, any coisinha opens the berreiro soon and it does not stop while it will not be changed. I there go to change: embezzles I took off it dirty, I cleaned direitinho, and during the process still I have that to be making gracinha: ' ' chocking mine cocozinho! ' ' , ' ' pretty mine menininho! ' ' it has that to make party n (I do not know why people insist on saying to done small boy pra to try to communicate itself with them, but seems that they like). There when I finish embezzles to place it and I leave bonitinho well pra to come back to sleep espreguia it if and if espreme of new and ready: another one ' ' pum premiado' ' of that one.

Traditional Women

They had once made the mistake that led to the parting with a loved one, and now prefer to be reinsured fear to repeat it. One may agree with the widespread view that age men are passive, but should be right to say the presence of a certain percentage of laziness in their behavior. In this and blame the women themselves. In an attempt to achieve a real gender equality, they have voluntarily set up on their fragile shoulders, not just the traditional child care and house, but also leadership positions in business and industry, cars and other men's classes. The initiative is known, is punishable. Many representatives of the strong half of mankind have received her as a natural era of matriarchy and settled comfortably in front of TV with a bottle of cold beer.

Now they have no desire and Time for grooming, gifts, and other attributes mannered in the tradition of a century ago. A women is simply not strong enough to fight for more and the main thing that makes them truly happy and winged. How, over time, suggests they experience, it is not money, and fashionable clothes, do not envy the white friends and colleagues, and even the popularity and admiration of loyal fans, and is available in virtually every sense – love of a man. Let the age it is quiet, discreet, had lost an excessive emotionality, but still an exciting and unique beauty. When men are young they are male hormones, and kind of Homo sapiens are often enviable activity during this period, almost every women are able to find a mate.

The Dishes

At the same time as a hostess, not soap box itself, and do not wash them …. What about us? Hand on heart, 90% of Russians do wash windows, mow lawns (if you feel an urge), and puts the children grandparents (in the worst case – grandparents). In fact – when we ask a child to wash the dishes – we ask him to share with us a part of our daily duties. Those we ourselves perform every day without hiring dishwashing field dinner, "a specially trained person." Imagine what happens when we pay for the same child washed the dishes. The child has erased the line between responsibilities at home and …

extortion. That is usually clears (erases, strokes) – mom, but if you do it for her – that she will rest, and I get pocket money. Pay your child once and you will hardly live to see the child voluntarily helping around the house – it will require payment regardless of your well-being and the kind of homework. In this outrage, you can send only to myself – this is the fruits of your education. Imagine a situation – my mother paid for his son washing dishes. Son marries, his wife falls ill (or ill feeling during pregnancy) and asked her husband to wash the dishes.

And he asks – how much did you give me for it? Say – nonsense? Not at all! He was always my mother paid for the performance of 'women's duties' – the wife is worse? My husband can not say it to his wife, but in this situation, he will feel free to reward yourself in some other way, because he worked on the house. Invent ways of self-promotion you can do. What should I do? If your family does not hire workers coming (and in most Russian families, the way it is), then the household responsibilities are divided among all members of the family, which is likely to carry them out.